Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Prenuptial Photo Session at Fully Booked



I do not know where to begin writing about our wedding (the preparations made and what transpired after) but for the meantime, here is a collage of our prenuptial photo session at Fully Booked Bonifacio High Street by Arlene Briones of Imagine Nation.

Friday, October 12, 2012

Ultimo adios


by Joey Ayala


adios patria adorada
region del sol querida
perla del mar de oriente
nuestro perdido eden
sa 'yo ‘tong aking buhay
puno ng kalungkutan
nguni’t kung maging mas brillante
mas fresca, mas florida
sa ‘yo pa rin iaalay
sa ‘yong kapakanan

sa parang ng digmaan
luchando con delirio
kay rami nang nag-alay
walang pagdadal’wa
saan man ay di importante
sa cipres, laurel o lirio
bitayan o kabukiran
combate o cruel martirio
ito ay iisa lamang
sa bayang sinilangan

ang aking kamataya’y
sabay ng mga kulay ng langit
sa umagang papawi sa gabi
at kung saka-sakaling
pula’y kailanganin
aking dugo’y gamitin
sa tamang panahon
y dorela un reflejo
de su nasciente luz

mi patria idolatrada
dolor de mis dolores
querida Filipinas
paalam ko’y dinggin
ako ngayo’y patungo
mis padres mis amores
kung saan walang alipin
verdugos ni opresores
donde la fe no mata
kung saan naghahari ang diyos

adios padres y hermanos
bahagi ng aking puso
paalam mga kababata
sa ‘ting tahanang sawi
salamat at lilisanin
araw ng suliranin
adios dulce extranjera
mi amiga, aking ligaya
adios mga ginigiliw
ako ay hihimlay

~~~

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Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Invitation to Love

by Paul Laurence Dunbar




Come when the nights are bright with stars
Or when the moon is mellow;
Come when the sun his golden bars
Drops on the hay-field yellow.

Come in the twilight soft and gray,
Come in the night or come in the day,
Come, O love, whene'er you may,
And you are welcome, welcome.

You are sweet, O Love, dear Love,
You are soft as the nesting dove.
Come to my heart and bring it rest
As the bird flies home to its welcome nest.

Come when my heart is full of grief
Or when my heart is merry;
Come with the falling of the leaf
Or with the redd'ning cherry. 

Come when the year's first blossom blows,
Come when the summer gleams and glows,
Come with the winter's drifting snows,
 And you are welcome, welcome.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Books we are reading at the moment

I'm reading:


Jopet is reading:


Tonight, we have a date (over the phone lang). He will tell me what this COBRA book is all about. He stayed up late until 4 am just to read this book. It's probably good.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

New phone!

Samsung Galaxy Nexus

Aylabit! :)

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Wednesday, May 02, 2012

Once is enough

I have been very careful about a lot of things. But I wanted to remember this, so I am going to write it down…

Arlene and I were exchanging files last night. She gave me several episodes of our favorite TV series, including the most recent one of Glee that featured Matt Bomer as Cooper Anderson, the brother of Blaine, and a copy of Adele’s concert at the Royal Albert Hall.

She asked me to listen first to the duet of Cooper and Blaine where they sang Somebody that I used to Know. Lyrics below:

But you didn't have to cut me off
Make it like it never happened and that we were nothing
I don't even need your love, but you treat me like a stranger
And that feels so rough

Afterwards, she asked me to listen to Adele’s version of I Can’t Make You Love Me. I was a bit hesitant to listen because the song reminded me so much about myself a few years ago. I told Arlene that I would always feel sad whenever I hear the song. And her response was, “Yeah I know, let us just be glad that we are not there anymore.” 

Turn down the lights, turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize... don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't.

I mean, if someone would give me a chance to live again in another time and in another universe, and would give me the option to have that experience removed from the list of all the things that I experienced, I would definitely choose that it be retained. It helped me grow up. It made me stronger than I ever thought possible. It taught me to be kinder, to be understanding, and to be more loving. But that’s it. I will never choose to experience it the second time, or worse the third. Once is enough for me that whenever Jopet and I would fight, I would always try to remember what happened before and imagine what I could have done to make it better and then I try to make things ok with him. It also helped a lot that Jopet is super kind.

~~~

The other day, while Jopet and I were arguing, I told him that to make things ok, I would break up with him (I was not really serious about this). He paused for a while and then he said that I could not do that. Mejo tumaas ang kilay ko, so I asked, “At bakeeet??!” then he said, “kasi pinag-pray mo ako.” It was my turn to be quiet. Then I laughed. Sabi ko na lang sa sarili ko: “Oo nga.” :)

It was true. I prayed so hard for about half a decade. I waited so long for his arrival that when he came, I was already on the brink of having a heart so bitter and so cold. He was the warmth that melted my heart. He made it so easy to fall in love with him.

~~~

For our 34th birthday, Jopet took me out on a snack date. He cooked Korean instant noodles, prepared cheese sandwiches, brought two chairs to the rooftop, and then asked me to go up with him to watch the sunset. It was sweet! I never thought he would do that for me. :)

One of his dreams is to see me sitting beside him doing nothing, nothing at all. He would often say that I am a malikot na bata because I cannot sit still for even 10 minutes. This afternoon he got what he wished for. As we watched the birds in the sky, the planes taking off in the nearby airport, the people below us, and the clouds above, I sat there for about 5 minutes doing absolutely nothing but held his hand. :) And I must admit, it felt good.


Sunday, April 08, 2012

Bisita Iglesia 2012

Nuestra Señora del Pilar
1st and 2nd Stations of the Cross



In this church I remember Gian, Elena, and Miguel. I pray for them Lord God. I pray for their family, that they may live and love each other in sickness and in health. May you bless them with good health always, especially Baby Miggy. May you bless them with understanding and peace-loving hearts that they may strengthen their relationship with each other and with the people around them. Bless them also with wealth that they can use to start their own life together. Amen.


Parish and Shrine of Padre Pio
3rd and 4th Stations of the Cross





I pray for those who are sick and hurting. May your loving hands touch them and heal them completely. In Jesus name, Amen.

Special prayer for Miguel, Mama, Papa, Jayjay, Gian, Inay, Myself, Jopet, Ate Che, and Ate Girlie.


Saint Thomas of Aquinas Parish
5th and 6th Stations of the Cross


I pray for all the families in the world. May they, like Jesus, continue to rise each time they fall. May each member sees the beauty of God's love in all the challenges they will face in their journey. Amen.

I also pray for my SFC family. May you continue to use them for your greater glory, Lord God.

Special prayers for the Ramos and Brion Families, Dimaya Family, Dela Cruz Family, Francisco Family, and Paredes Family.


Saint John the Evangelist
7th and 8th Stations of the Cross



I pray for my brothers and sisters. You have sent me people that helped me grow to who I am right now. I pray that you continue to bless them with everything that they need to be able to fulfill your purpose for them. Amen.


Nuestra Señora del Soledad
9th and 10th Stations of the Cross


Here, I will always remember Carlo and all the children who have touched my life. I pray that You bless them Lord with wisdom, happiness, love and understanding. May they all grow in love with you, my God. Amen.

Special prayer for Miguel and Carlo, my brothers and sisters, and all my cousins.


Immaculada Concepcion Malvar Parish
11th and 12th Stations of the Cross


Here, I remember all the faithful, the priests, and the sisters who have dedicated their lives to do your works here on earth. They are your face. I pray that you continue to give them the strength and the resources that they need to do your will.

I dedicate this station also for Jopet's love for you.


Saint Therese of the Child Jesus Parish
13th and 14th Stations of the Cross


Here, I pray for Jopet and I. May You bless us with a loving, full of understanding, happy, healthy, fulfilling, and wealthy relationship. Bless us Lord God with all the things that we need, including wealth for us to be blessings to other. Bless also our future family. May You always be in our midst. Thank you po. Amen.

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Monday, March 26, 2012

Finding faith in the desert

Dear God,

I have been in the desert for quite some time now. And although I know that you love me very much (through the people around me), I feel that I am so far away from you. I long to feel your presence in my life, my God.

As the deer panteth for the water
So my soul longeth after Thee

You alone are my heart's desire
And I long to worship Thee


You alone are my strength, my shield
To you alone may my spirit yield
You alone are my heart's desire
And I long to worship Thee

You're my friend and you are my brother
Even though you are a king
I love you more than any other
So much more than anything


I want you more than gold or silver
Only you can satisfy
You alone are the real joy giver
And the apple of my eye

Love,
Your daughter

Two branches of one tree

Sunday, March 04, 2012

Friday, March 02, 2012

Monday, February 27, 2012

Travel Note - MV Logos Hope 1st Time in Manila



Itinerary:

1:45 - Meet up at the Head Quarters, Bicutan (our house)
2:00 - Lunch at Rai Rai Ken, SM Bicutan
4:15 - Logos Hope, Pier 15 South Harbor, Manila
7:45 - Bulalo Point, Tagaytay
9:50 - Mushroom Burger, Tagaytay
11:30 - Miguel's Place, Buendia
12:00 - Home sweet home! :)

Sunday, February 12, 2012

32nd Birthday - Jopet



For the person who loves me and whom I love even more, happy 32nd birthday!

I pray for you all the best things in the world. May God bless you more and more each day!

Thank you for being one of the super wonderful blessings in my life. I love you much!

Kiss :)

Thursday, February 09, 2012

NAST Phl Gears Up for Good Water Governance in the Philippines

Guada B. Ramos and Dexter L.A. Bautista

The National Academy of Science and Technology, Philippines (NAST PHL) spearheaded the Roundtable Discussion (RTD) on Water Rights and Water Wrongs: Towards Good Water Governance for Development, with the Social Sciences Division at the helm through Academician Agnes Rola, who served as the focal person for the event. The activity was conducted at the Le Salon, Hyatt Hotel Manila, 26 January 2012.

Academician Emil Q. Javier, president of NAST Phl and chair of the 34th Annual Scientific Meeting (ASM) welcomed the participants led by the Philippine Water Czar, Honorable Secretary Rogelio L. Singson of the Department of Public Works and Highways (DPWH). Acd. Javier stated that as part of its advisory function, the NAST ASM takes on key national issues and brings collective expertise not only from the Academy but from the whole scientific community to address such issues. Since water is becoming a pressing national concern, NAST believed that it is timely and appropriate to dedicate this year’s ASM to water and its many challenges and implications.

Being the first in the series of RTDs in preparation for the ASM in July, this RTD aimed to clarify the current state of water governance in the Philippines and recommend ways to improve it. Experts invited were Dr. Christopher Wensley, lead water resource specialist of the Asian Development Bank (ADB), Dr. Cristina David, former Research Fellow of the Philippine Institute for Development Studies (PIDS), Mr. Vicente Paragas, executive director of the National Water Resources Board (NWRB), Acd. Guillermo Tabios III, member of the NAST Engineering Sciences and Technology (EST) Division, Dr. Joy Lizada, dean of the College of Management, University of the Philippines Visayas (UPV), Prevelyn Gazmen, stakeholder manager of the Manila Water, and Dr. Ma Helen Dayo, director of the Gender Center of the University of the Philippines Los Baños (UPLB). Dr. Felino Lansigan of the Institute of Statistics, UPLB, acted as the moderator for the open forum and Dr. Juan Pulhin of the College of Forestry and Natural Resources, UPLB, synthesized the discussions.

Starting on the premise that “water is (a) human right”, Acd. Rola discussed the framework of analysis for water governance in relation to development. According to her, there is a need for (1) institutional body to govern watershed unit for its water resources and other environmental services; (2) instruments enabling efficient use of water at its highest value; and (3) broad support from local community, civil societies, and the local governments to ensure quality water management.

Dr. Wensley, on the other hand, discussed the Asian Development Bank perspectives on water resources management and water governance. ADB’s Asian Water Development Outlook of 2011 showed that household water scarcity is undermined by persuasive inequity; the region’s economic prosperity is imperilled by the poor health of 80% of its rivers; and the high disaster risk combines with low resilience can undo economic development. In order to address the global water crisis, ADB published the Water Rights and Water Allocation: The Foundation of Water Governance that tackles the issues of ensuring basic water rights, principles of allocation, managing water shortages, adapting to change, building capacity, encouraging consultation, and strengthening accountability.

Dr. David highlighted issues in water pricing. She reported that with the growing scarcity of raw water supply and increasing demand for water, there has been widespread belief since the late 1980s that appropriate water pricing is necessary for achieving allocation and management of water resources. However, the current scheme employed by local water districts and private groups like MWSS is rather incomplete. To address the growing concerns on water pricing, she suggested broadening the perspective in terms of policy, regulatory, and institutional instruments, to achieve overall objectives of improving water resource management, beyond just pricing. She also recommended an appropriate mix of public and private provision and management of water resources and greater user participation in decision making and actual management.

Mr. Paragas reported that there are more than 30 agencies in the Philippines managing water resources resulting in fragmentation and sectoral approach in water management. Due to the existing legal framework, there are overlapping and unclear delineation of roles and responsibilities. The present situation shows a need to improve the current management of water resources. Mr. Paragas proposed programs to improve water governance such as the (1) establishment of science-based decision support systems including climate change impacts models in the conduct of water resources assessment towards improved policies and decision making, (2) conduct research on water efficiency, alternative water management technologies and water accounting specially for irrigation use and promote its implementation; (3) review of the Water Code of the Philippines for possible amendment to be responsive to current issues and challenges; (4) implementation of policies on the issuance of Water Permit in critical areas; (5) partnership with government agencies and LGUs on the monitoring of compliance of the Water Code of the Philippines; (6) deputation of the DENR regional officers to bring NWRB nearer to the people; and (7) advocacy on river basin management.

Considering the current status, challenges, and issues of the country’s water resources, Acd. Tabios recommended the creation of a National Water Resources Management Council (NWRMC), which will include all existing agencies that have a stake in water resources and unite them into a single agency chaired by the President of the Republic of the Philippines. This council is expected to manage and protect the country’s water resources for domestic water supply, sanitation, irrigation, hydropower, fisheries, aquaculture, flood control, navigation, and recreation including the enhancement and maintenance of water quality, conservation of watersheds, control of water pollution and environment restoration without compromising the natural ecosystem functions and services.

Dr. Lizada showcased the Metro Iloilo Water District and discussed the controversies confronting it. She talked about the initiatives on water resource management of the Tigum Aganan Watershed Management Board (TAWMB) as the supply side and the Metro Iloilo Water District (MIWD) as the demand side.

Ms. Gazmen recognized that the poor are most vulnerable to water supply problems. Manila Water initiated a program called Tubig Para sa Barangay (TPSB) to be able to provide water for the poor in urban communities. The program reduces high systems losses for Manila Water, and at the same time, it addresses the water needs of low-income communities. This initiative was commended by National Scientist Gelia Castillo during the open forum, who also suggested that maybe this can be replicated in more areas.

Dr. Dayo shared her work with the communities around Mt. Banahaw and its impact on gender relations including their struggle for the common property water resources coming from the mountain. Water scarcity is becoming a source of conflict in this rural area. The water concerns can be seen as a precautionary tale that shows how gender, institutions or religion and identity-related struggles unfolded in the rich environmental history of Mt. Banahaw.

In the end, Dr. Pulhin summarized the presentations by stating the basic premise of the discussion. He reiterated that water is a human right and a building block of development. He further added that Water RIGHTS involve water as valuable resource that is increasingly becoming scarce. It is an institution that covers the custom, behavioural patterns and rules that define access, use and management. On the other hand, Water WRONGS involve weak policy implementation, poor water quantity and quality, lack in coordination, capacity, and resources among the agencies and stakeholders involved. He added that existing policies do not mention climate change. The need to include environmental costs for appropriate pricing mechanism was emphasized. In terms of governance, a disparity between theory and practice including lack of science and technology-based decision-making was noted and should be addressed.

This is the first of a series of RTDs focusing on water issues and leading to the conduct of the 34th Annual Scientific Meeting (ASM) in July 2012.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Pag-ibig ang Naghahari

Bukas Palad
from the album Maging Akin Muli


Panginoon, turuan Niyo po akong mabuhay sa araw-araw
Na hindi sarili lang ang ipinangingibabaw
Ito ang aking taos-pusong panalangin
At lubos na umaasang Inyong diringgin

Hayaan ang mga mata'y mamulat sa katotohanan
Ang pananagutan ay hindi malilimutan
Upang mabuhay na mag-uli at maluwalhati
At pag-ibig ang siyang tanging naghahari

Tulungan Niyo po ako sa lahat ng gawain
Upang maging matapat at maunawain
At malaman na ang pagsunod sa utos Niyo
Ay ang pagtulong sa aking kapwa-tao


Hayaan ang mga mata'y mamulat sa katotohanan
Ang pananagutan ay hindi malilimutan
Upang mabuhay na mag-uli at maluwalhati
At pag-ibig ang siyang tanging naghahari

Kapag ang aking gawain sa lupa ay tapos na
At ang bagong tungkulin sa langit ay nagsisimula pa
Nawa'y makaligtaan ang koronang nakamtan
Habang iniisip pa rin ang alay sa sangkatauhan

Hayaan ang mga mata'y mamulat sa katotohanan
Ang pananagutan ay hindi malilimutan
Upang mabuhay na mag-uli at maluwalhati
At pag-ibig ang siyang tanging naghahari

Thursday, January 19, 2012

32nd Birthday - Happy! - Part 2

Jopet and I celebrated the part 2 of my birthday last January 14 and 15. Tapos na ang birthday ko. :) And I super love every minute of it! Fun, fun, fun!


January 14 - Day 2 of 3
We went to Ongpin to canvass for rings. Ana, my SFC sister who is based in Australia, volunteered to sponsor them as her gift to us. She's been bugging me to send her quotations since November last year. Last week, she reminded me again about the quotation so we decided to go and look around. We were able to buy model rings made of tungsten and styled exactly what we had in mind but we could not find ones that were made of gold.

After visiting a number of stores we decided to roam around the area to look for authentic Chinese cuisine. I was a bit hesitant to enter some stores since we were not sure if they were clean or not (sorry, maarte lang talaga). It was a good thing that Jopet agreed to eat at Eng Bee Tin where he ordered Singaporean Laksa.



January 15 - Day 3of 3
Feast of Sto. Niño

As promised, Jopet brought me to the National Museum for the completion of my birthday celebration. While inside the LRT, I saw people holding/hugging their Sto Nino images. Probably, they will attend the procession in Binondo.

I was overflowing with excitement as we reached the entrance of the National Museum! I super love the place! Everybody at the entrance was so nice and kind and helpful. Jopet and I did not follow the student’s line. We decided to have our own tour. Apparently we got lost and ended up at the back corridor of the second floor. We entered one of the closed doors and saw many foreigners and lots of lights. Jopet and I concluded that we were probably inside the shooting venue of Bourne Legacy. We decided to pretend that we were lost to check what was going on but as we made our way to the shooting area, we were approached by a man in suit who kept on saying, “nagbabawas kami ng tao! Nagbabawas kami ng tao!” Buti na lang someone at the back said, “Hindi boss, walk in lang mga yan” and he immediately ushered us to another door.

Compared to CCP, National Museum was a magical place! We were allowed to use our cameras as long as we turn off the flash. I love the history behind the artefacts carefully written on the information board beside each display; the old houses of our ancestors as well as their clothes and body ornaments; the preserved species samples in the biodiversity section of the museum; the paintings in the art gallery; even the column cladding at the main entrance of the museum! I mean everything about the place, I super love! =) And the best thing about the trip was that Jopet also enjoyed it.

Monday, January 16, 2012

10 things you should know about Ted Failon

One of my favorite personalities. Ted Failon was my big crush in high school (yes, I was and still am an AM radio-listening person) and had been the reason why I took up DevCom in college.

Ted Failon: From waiter to tricycle driver to newscaster
By Bianca Gonzalez
October 16, 2011

On radio and TV, he has a unique way of delivering the news and gives informed and witty commentaries. In person, he is simple as simple can be, very low-key and unassuming. Known to be a private person, he politely begged off having his photo taken during the interview, but agreed to behind-the-scenes shots during his live newscast. He smiles and laughs much more off camera than on camera.

We usually do not know much about the personal lives of journalists, but one of the things we do know about Ted’s personal life is the tragedy his family went through in 2009, when they were involved in a controversial case over the death of his wife Trina. Failon’s life has been filled with enough experiences for two or more lifetimes, and here are 10 things you should know about him:

1. Ted was once a room boy, waiter, construction worker, tsinelas vendor, tricycle driver, disc jockey, and was, most of the time, a working student.

His dad Jose was a jeepney driver and his mom Josefina who was a market vendor. Mario Teodoro Failon Etong was born and raised in Tacloban City, before moving to Manila where he eventually started his career. While in school, he had to work to help his parents, which was also how he developed his people skills and his gift of gab. He recalls these memories with fondness and shares a few stories. On the time he was 15 years old working as a waiter, “Nagtataka yung mga customer na kapag dumating yung order nilang fried chicken,parang may bawas. Kinakain kasi namin.” And he proudly shares that he was part of the “first batch ng room boy sa Tacloban Plaza.”

When Ted got married in 1983, he had to quit school and work full time at a local radio station. Not taking for granted the importance of education even when he was already working, 11 years after he left college, he enrolled at the Polytechnic University of the Philippines and two years after, in 1996, graduated with a degree in broadcast communications.

2. When he was starting out in ABS-CBN, he practically lived in the network’s compound, sleeping in the janitor’s quarters every night.

“I was so eager to be in any network in Manila. Sinabi ko sa sarili ko na kapag binigyan ako ng break, gagandahan ko at aayusin ko talaga ang trabaho ko,” he recalls. Doing his job as a desk editor from 4 p.m. to midnight, a radio show from 2 to 4 a.m., then often pinch hitting for the 4 a.m. show of the late Lito Villarosa, and sometimes even also for the 5 to 8 a.m. show of KabayanNoli de Castro, Ted found it “sayang sa pamasahe at sa oras” to go home every day. So he literally lived in the office for almost the whole week, and went home on Sundays. Ted first applied to ABS-CBN twice and was not accepted. It was when he tried a third time that he finally got the job as a desk editor in 1990.

3. Before ending his first year as a Congressman, Ted already talked to his ABS-CBN boss Gabby Lopez to ask if he could come back to the programs he had left as soon as his term would end.

With over two years left in his term, he told his boss “parang di ko yata ito kakayanin, pag umuuwi ako ng distrito ko para akong ATM machine eh.” He shares that with all due respect to other politicians, he has two reasons why he felt Congress was not for him. First, he says, “No matter how good your intentions are, or how great your advocacy is, at the end of the day pagbobotohan yan and if you don’t have support of the majority, ingay ka lang dun.” Second, he shares, “Ang dami nilang parang obligado kang buhayin mo sila, and when you refuse to heed to their demands, they will say ‘lilipat na kami sa kabila.’”

When he found out he could return to broadcasting, in 2004, he finished his term and all his projects in the district, and declared that he would not run again. No regrets though, because he was able to apply what he learned as a politician saying, “Pag nag-interview ako ngayon ng Congressman, di nila ako pwedeng bolahin.”

4. Ted Failon in numbers:

21 — His age when he married his wife, the late Trina Arteche-Etong, with whom he has two daughters (Kaye, 26, who works in TV production, and Karish, 15, a junior high school student).

2,600 — Amount of pesos a month he received as his first-ever salary at ABS-CBN.

45 — Awards received for broadcasting in radio and TV.

1 — Ballpoint pen that he uses in his signature move, placing his pen in his coat pocket after the closing spiel of “TV... (wait for it) Patrol!” He has been using the same Cross pen on the main newscast ever since he returned in 2004.

15 — Days a year he is allowed to go on leave.

14 — Number of newspapers he reads every morning.

5. On the issue of bribery in journalism, Ted says, “these PR guys know kung sino ang pwede nilang suhulan at sino ang hindi.”

He gives this direct quote and statement: “Yung industriyang ginagalawan namin ay maliit lang. Everybody knows everybody. At yung mga PR operators, maliit lang din na grupo yan. They know, among us, sino ang kanilang kaya, sino ang nasa kanilang payroll. Let them speak sa usapin na ganyan. I don’t want to pass judgment on my colleagues.”

He adds that if you are a keen follower of radio commentaries, you will know who is corrupt versus who is incorruptible.

6. Broadcaster Gabby Aurillo was the one who inspired him to try to make it big, and “Kabayan” Noli de Castro advised him, “wag kang mahiyang ilabas ang talento mo.”

Gabby Aurillo was a local broadcaster and the professor of Ted at the Divine Word University in Tacloban. Gabby became an anchor for Channel 9 news in Manila, which made Ted and other aspiring broadcasters in Tacloban look up to him. He said to himself then, “kung kaya ni Gabby, why not subukan ko din.”

Former Vice President Noli de Castro was the one who really helped Ted get his big break. When Kabayan would be absent from his radio or TV shows, he would insist that Ted be the one to sit in for him. “Pati kurbata ko kanya, at kung kasya lang sa akin Amerikana niya, siguro ipapahiram niya din yun sa akin,” Ted fondly recalls. Kabayan encouraged Ted in his work, and not once did Ted ever see unkindness from his mentor. From broadcasting to politics and back to broadcasting, things have come full circle for these two colleagues and good friends.

7. Ted’s good friend and long-time colleague Korina Sanchez on their one-in-a-million tandem: “I joke that after two decades of seeing each other every day in our morning radio program on DZMM, he is like a work-husband!”

Ted is the only boy in a brood of four children, and Korina the only girl in a brood of five. In what seems to be a partnership made in broadcasting heaven, they formed a real and deep friendship in a very competitive industry. Their list of award-winning hit programs include Hoy! Gising, Pulso: Aksyon Balita, Tambalang Failon at Sanchez, Harapan and TV Patrol. According to Korina, they share the same sense of humor, have similar advocacies, and they grew together both personally and professionally. According to Ted, “naiintindihan ko siya, yung mood niya, yung temper niya, at naiintindihan niya ako, yung mood ko, yung temper ko.”

8. He turns to books for answers.

On his office desk was the book Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know by Meg Meeker, which he has read cover to cover to help enlighten him on how to deal with his daughters. They may not give him answers when he asks them “May nanliligaw na ba sa iyo? May nambu-bully ba sa iyo,” but he seems to be doing fine because his eldest daughter Kaye shares that the best thing about her dad is “his capacity for acceptance and understanding.”

On the set of TV Patrol, beside Ted’s chair and retouch kit was the book Pananampalataya written by his good friend Pastor Joey Umali. On the cover it read “Buhay na pag-asa sa pag-ibig ng Diyos” and inside, the bookmark he used was a photo booth shot taken of him and his daughter. He would read a few lines during commercial breaks.

Off camera, Ted’s executive producer Irene Javier-Manotok reveals that Ted is a very spiritual person, and that he once advised her that we should kneel when we pray. “I don’t want to be preachy about it, but I discovered so many things when I became more spiritual,” Ted shares. When asked what Bible verses are his favorites, he effortlessly recites chapters, passages, and lines, citing the books of Psalms, Ecclesiastes, Habakkuk and Philippians.

9. He still finds himself asking questions about the fate of his dearly departed wife Trina.

“Meron pa rin sa aking mga low moments, meron pang panghihinayang. Bakit kinakailangang mangyari? Bakit kinakailangang humantong sa ganun? Hindi pa rin nawawala yun,” Ted opens up. After that incident, he shares that “life is too short,” which is his life philosophy. We should enjoy it, we should do what we can to help others, and we should do what we want for ourselves, because no one knows what will happen tomorrow.

10. Ever since he and his daughters lost his wife, Ted declared one most important, basic rule to his family: “Errors are accepted in this home.”

“Lahat tayo nagkakamali,” Ted declares. And he reaffirms his two daughters by telling them, “Kapag nagkamali ka sa anumang desisyon mo, sa anumang ginawa mong bagay, mali man ito sa mata ng lipunan, sa ibang sektor, sa ibang tao, nakagawa ka man ng hindi tama.. Bago mo kausapin ang kaibigan mo, barkada mo, sa takot mo na magagalit ako, hindi dapat ganun. Dapat ang una mong kakausapin, ako. Tatlo tayong mag-usap, kasi wala ka nang ibang uuwian. Pag nagkamali ka sa labas, you seek refuge sa bahay. Tanggap ka dito, dahil bahay mo ‘to. Yun ang rule number 1.”

For this family man and passionate broadcaster, life is simple. He does not have more than one credit card (he has one foreign card for when he travels, which he hardly does), he does not bring his wallet to work because “wala naman akong inaasahan na bibilhin ko,” and the one thing he wants to achieve more in life is to see his youngest daughter Karishma graduate college. They say that there really is no sure “secret” to success, but in the life of Manong Ted, simplicity, humility and hard work seems to be what brought him straight to the top.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

When I grow up...

Little girls would often talk about their dream of becoming a princess, which more often than not would only be realized during the celebration of their 18th Birthday or their wedding day. I never dreamed of these things. As a matter of fact, my 18th birthday was organized by my mother and my cousin. Me, I just arrived the night before the celebration. I don't even want to attend weddings - nagugutom kasi ako sa haba ng program during the reception. But I love the wedding ceremonies. From the moment the groom enters the church up to the part where the officiating priest would say "you may kiss the bride" I love every minute of it. For me, that is not just the union of two souls but of three individuals – the man, the woman, and God – that is being witnessed by the people closest to the couple. After each wedding, I would often wonder what the couple would look like after say... 5 years or 10 years or even 50 years when all the romance is gone.

Early last year, while Jopet was reading his new comics and I was playing Bejeweled in my mobile phone, he said “Pag tanda natin, siguro ganito pa rin tayo, no?” I replied “Yeah, most likely.” A few weeks later, he sent me the Married Life drawing. Once in a while we would talk about our life in the future. Without being cynical, we are open to the fact that as couples grow older romance fades away. Oh, we are not yet married but we know that when that time comes, (hopefully) we will stay and keep our promises to each other that is to have and to hold.

Anyways, in relation to my opening paragraph, what I wanted when I grow up is not to become a princess nor to be a fairy. I want so much to become a mother. I want to have children of my own. When we attended our pre-CANA seminar at the Center for Family Ministries-Ateneo de Manila University (CEFAM-ADMU), our counselor assessed that I am a parent-child. I was not shocked when she told me that I just didn't know that there is a term for it pala. I blame Inay, Taluts, and Mama for it. Nah, in truth, I could never blame them, because in terms of taking care of their kids, these three are the best-est. That’s it, these are my dreams: to be the best mother to my children, the most caring and loving wife to my husband, and an obedient daughter to my God. And everything else will follow.

#3 - Love is...

saying that YOU are more important than my work (and meaning it). :)

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Travel Report

2011
January: Mamburao, Occidental Mindoro
February: Manaoag, Pangasinan; Baguio City
March: Tagaytay City
April: Baguio City
May: Laiya, Batangas; UPOU Graduation
June: Catbalogan, Samar; Calbayog City, Samar
July: Pre-CANA Seminar, Ateneo De Manila University
August: Cagayan De Oro; Bukidnon
September: Zamboanga City
October: Coron, Palawan
November: Tagaytay City; Enchanted Kingdom; Divisoria, Manila; Laoag City, Ilocos Norte
Paoay, Ilocos Norte
December: National Museum (outside); Manila Cathedral; Cultural Center of the Philippines

2010
January: Quiapo, Manila
February: Panglao, Bohol
March: Binondo, Manila; Lagro, Fairview
April: Baguio City; La Trinidad, Benguet
May: Dasmarina, Cavite
June: Tagbilaran, Bohol
July: Malolos, Bulacan
August: Davao City; Samal Garden Island
September: Malolos, Bulacan
October: Ocean Park, Manila
November: Tagaytay City; SM Bicutan - Pacquiao Fight
December: Puerto Princesa, Palawan

2009
January: Manaoag, Pangasinan; Baguio City, Baguio
February: Baguio City; Cebu City
March: Baras, Rizal
April: Antipolo City; Tagaytay City
May: Cagbalete, Quezon
June: La Mesa Eco Park, Quezon City
July: Quezon City Circle, Quezon City; Port Harbor, Manila
August: Los Banos, Laguna; Alaminos, Laguna
September: Candelaria, Quezon

2008
December: Sagada, Mountain Province

Tuesday, January 03, 2012

Miguel at 6 months

Presenting, my family's HAPPY THOUGHT... Miguel. :)

Miguel playing with Papa
Miguel with his new toy from Carlo and Taluts
Miguel with Ate Ninang
Miguel sleeping on top of Papa's desk
Miguel with Daddy Gian on Christmas day
Miguel with Mommy Elena on Christmas day
Miguel with Papa watching the cars and trucks outside
Miguel playing with his new toy before going to the doctor